I help clients to identify their sub-consciously stored programs about anything in life ( relationships, money, carrier , needs etc.)  but especially about their subconscious rules related to love and emotional bond, which is called attachment system. 3 types out of 4 of the attachment styles are called insecure or wounded because they are based on painful beliefs about who we are, what we should expect and how we should operate in relationships. I help clients to heal these attachment styles which I call updating because these rules were formed and imprinted in our subconscious mind in our childhood or during abusive relationship and they need to be updated. Using knowledge of how the subconscious mind works and many healing modalities like inner child work, IFS, art therapy, somatic processing, basic CBT, we are able to update anything what is stored there and have fulfilling, interdependent, loving relationships. I help clients to understand their trauma they went thru, like stressful home environment, unmet basic human needs, emotional neglect, codependency and enmeshment, shame and heal from these experiences on subconscious level.